I don't like cliques, but I know even here in little old St.Helens we have them. I don't think it's even really intentional, it just happens. People hang out with people who share their interests, that's how people form friendships, they share a commen thing that they like. And that is all fine and swell but it has to be really difficult for people who dont have others to hang out with or talk to. Or for instance a new student comes to school they have to find a group that is willing to accept them, and that isn't ever very easy at all. It's hard to be friends with someone else when they already have a group of friends. You cant just walk up to someone and automatically be their friend and be accepted. It just doesn't work like that.
So anyways I don't really know what clique I'm considered to be in. I hang out with the people who make me laugh, who I feel comfortable around, and the people who actualy listen to me and dont judge me.
I think if I was to be stereo typed people would think A) She must be a nerd, B) She is a weird art person, or C) She is probably in band or something. I do actualy fit these stereo types because yes I am a nerd, yes I love to do art, and yes I am actualy in choir which is kinda close to band in some ways (band people please dont kill me for comparing you to choir kids) but I don't really care what people think about me. I learned a while ago that you can't do anything to stop people from judging you or thinking what they want about you. All that matters is what I think of myself.
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You're a weird art person, but an amazing one! :) And there is definitely much more to you than that, but I feel like that is kinda the skeleton of who you are and everything kinda moves around it. I mean choir is a performing art. And even your penmanship looks like art. :)
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