Musings

In my opinion, if you have to ask yourself, "Is this lying?", then you probably shouldn't be saying it. As to lying to protect people, if you can't say it to their face, then you probably shouldn't be thinking it. I've screwed alot of things up with that concept, but I've also saved relationships, so it's a two edged sword. If the usual questions came up, like "Do I look fat in this?" ask what they think, because they're usuall asking it for a reason. They have doubts. I know that I do. If I ask that question, then I would be honest, and say (politely) that yes, it does but if you did this... just sort of fix the situation. Sorry, I'm really scatter brained today, so this probably doesn't make much sense.