My answer to this would have to be yes. I mean there is the joy that comes from the height of the relationship and then even when everything falls apart and there is pain, I feel like it are the hard times that you learn the most from. You learn the most about yourself, and who you are. You even learn who your real friends are, the ones who are willing to pick you up when you fall. Besides, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, right?
Yes. People spend all this time looking for that one thing that everyone talks about; love. Some never even experience it. If i had the chance to experience REAL love, not lust, nor infactuation, you bet i would. Heartbreak. Thats the other part of this? Well heartbreak is something that you learn from. Something that helps you find yourself.
Yeah, it's better. Isn't love one of those never ending searches that humans are famous for? I believe that there are many different kinds of love. I daresay I've fallen in love before. And I probably still love that person. But it's not the marriage-last-forever-sort-of love that I think most people look, like in fairy tales.
Real love doesn't break your heart. There will be loss, of course -- but the love isn't to blame for that, that's life. You suffer loss no matter what. So the only issue here is: will you look for real love, or settle for something less?
I feel very strongly about this, because I have found true love. My wife is everything to me, and after fifteen years together, she is still everything to me, and she always will be. We decided a long time ago that she was going to die first (it's only fair -- she had to deal with more relationship crap before we met than I did, so I should be the lonely one) so at some point I will be without her, and that will feel like the end of the world. But it won't break my heart, which will always be full of love for her. Forever.
I can't tell you folks what to do when you are given the choice of sticking with the love you have, that may not be perfect, or looking for the one true love; not everyone needs a one true love. If your ambitions in life are more important, or your real family love will be for your children or your pets or someone else, then maybe you don't need the perfect love, and a good companion will be enough. There's nothing wrong with that, and losing someone you truly care for because you are waiting for the passion of the ages is a terrible thing to do, and a terrible choice to live with if you don't find your one and only -- or you find your one and only and he or she is married.
But if you do want perfect love, it will be out there for you, and you should keep looking until you find it. It's the best thing there is.
I think even if you know you're not going to spend forever with someone but you think you 'love' them you should still give it a try. But this leads to the question of what is love?
I think that if you like someone and you tell them, and you go out, but it doesn't work out in the end, then at the very least you know what happened. You know what I mean? At least 20 years down the road you aren't thinking "oh I wish I would have gone out with him! Maybe things would have been different!" cuse you know how it ended. So I would say yes it trully is.
I probably would. Because I'd think I could change everything and make it better. I'd try way too hard to make sure I didn't get my heart broken. And then I'd be the one who got hurt in the end. But I'd still do it.
Even if you knew you were going to get hurt i think you would still fall in love because with love the mind and the heart never agree, for the longest time i was trying to get the heart to listen to me but in the end it ended up winning which i knew would happen.
Nope because loving someone and then having them die or crush your heart or something like that will make you prone to finding random stuff in the day that remind you of that person and in turn the pain, just like all those stupid T.v shows that I don't watch *cough* *cough*
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ReplyDeleteMy answer to this would have to be yes. I mean there is the joy that comes from the height of the relationship and then even when everything falls apart and there is pain, I feel like it are the hard times that you learn the most from. You learn the most about yourself, and who you are. You even learn who your real friends are, the ones who are willing to pick you up when you fall. Besides, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, right?
ReplyDeleteYes. People spend all this time looking for that one thing that everyone talks about; love. Some never even experience it. If i had the chance to experience REAL love, not lust, nor infactuation, you bet i would. Heartbreak. Thats the other part of this? Well heartbreak is something that you learn from. Something that helps you find yourself.
ReplyDeleteYeah, it's better. Isn't love one of those never ending searches that humans are famous for? I believe that there are many different kinds of love. I daresay I've fallen in love before. And I probably still love that person. But it's not the marriage-last-forever-sort-of love that I think most people look, like in fairy tales.
ReplyDeleteReal love doesn't break your heart. There will be loss, of course -- but the love isn't to blame for that, that's life. You suffer loss no matter what. So the only issue here is: will you look for real love, or settle for something less?
ReplyDeleteI feel very strongly about this, because I have found true love. My wife is everything to me, and after fifteen years together, she is still everything to me, and she always will be. We decided a long time ago that she was going to die first (it's only fair -- she had to deal with more relationship crap before we met than I did, so I should be the lonely one) so at some point I will be without her, and that will feel like the end of the world. But it won't break my heart, which will always be full of love for her. Forever.
I can't tell you folks what to do when you are given the choice of sticking with the love you have, that may not be perfect, or looking for the one true love; not everyone needs a one true love. If your ambitions in life are more important, or your real family love will be for your children or your pets or someone else, then maybe you don't need the perfect love, and a good companion will be enough. There's nothing wrong with that, and losing someone you truly care for because you are waiting for the passion of the ages is a terrible thing to do, and a terrible choice to live with if you don't find your one and only -- or you find your one and only and he or she is married.
But if you do want perfect love, it will be out there for you, and you should keep looking until you find it. It's the best thing there is.
I think even if you know you're not going to spend forever with someone but you think you 'love' them you should still give it a try. But this leads to the question of what is love?
ReplyDeleteIf II knew I would get a broken heart, then no. I would always be worrying about it, and I could never trust her.
ReplyDeleteI think that if you like someone and you tell them, and you go out, but it doesn't work out in the end, then at the very least you know what happened. You know what I mean? At least 20 years down the road you aren't thinking "oh I wish I would have gone out with him! Maybe things would have been different!" cuse you know how it ended. So I would say yes it trully is.
ReplyDeleteI probably would. Because I'd think I could change everything and make it better. I'd try way too hard to make sure I didn't get my heart broken. And then I'd be the one who got hurt in the end. But I'd still do it.
ReplyDeleteTrick question, because you can NOT make yourself fall in and out of love =D
ReplyDeleteDepends how i was going to break my heart
ReplyDeletei would say yes because i can't control my heart even if the person i like doesn't even give a crap about me!
ReplyDeleteEven if you knew you were going to get hurt i think you would still fall in love because with love the mind and the heart never agree, for the longest time i was trying to get the heart to listen to me but in the end it ended up winning which i knew would happen.
ReplyDeleteI can't answer this. I really don't know
ReplyDeleteif i knew it wouldn't work then i wouldn't do it.
ReplyDeleteYou can't control who you love.
ReplyDeletethats like saying would you rather have something only to have it hurt you in the end.
ReplyDeletefor me thats a no, i would not love at all
Nope because loving someone and then having them die or crush your heart or something like that will make you prone to finding random stuff in the day that remind you of that person and in turn the pain, just like all those stupid T.v shows that I don't watch *cough* *cough*
ReplyDeleteNo. I don't know why... but I wouldn't.
ReplyDeletei agree with will but my answer is just hmmm
ReplyDeleteBetter than having no love at all. I mean, ud eventually get over it if u knew it was coming. Right?
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